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Update

Has been quite a while and there has been so much juicy gossip going on XDD

I went to VivoCity on Sunday and met the Kurabu people for dinner then some shocking announcements were made by Gumok which scared the whole Kurabu XD So fun~ gossip!Bonding session was like so super hot with so much rumors and whatnot coming to light XP

And I am leaving a small tiny space here which I am going to dedicate to AMBER aka death.anqel aka death anqel

Lolipop made a thread for her on SG Cafe and she is still not going to return us money. Aww.

http://sgcafe.com/showthread.php?t=53848

She is nothing but a stupid idiotic selfish lying conniving bratty spoilt twit who can't speak proper english to save her life. XMM

Ok, the budget was changed $220 to $250 now XD

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Cancer Instincts

Took this from Cutepetz's blog, XD

I was really interested, since I am a Cancer.

Cancer Child

Are you the proud parent of a Cancerian child? If yes, then it's better to be get used to his extreme mood swings. At times, his moods change with the changing hours. A Cancer child is very observant and whatever he sees, will remain etched in his memory forever. He is very emotional and lives in a world of his own, which may make him lonely at times. His face will always reflect myriad of emotions, some of which you will not be able to understand also. Home environment deeply affects a Cancerian baby.

He wants lots of emotional nurturing from his family. Infact, his personality will be very much influenced by the reactions of his family members to his traits. He is extremely shy to ask for your attention and love, so be sure to give him plenty without of hugs waiting for him to ask. Disapproval will hurt him deeply. In the initial years of their life, Cancer children are quite easy to manage as well as discipline. However, in adolescence, their characteristics profile may show a little bit of rebellion.

They have a vivid imagination and can keep themselves busy with imaginary people and things. Don't stop a Cancerian child from letting his imagination run loose. It is one of his ways of getting over the wounds given by others. He is quite emotional, but he is also very independent and will hardly be one of the followers. If you ignore a Cancer baby for too long or say harsh words to him, he may go into the gloomy spell. Then, he will turn into a crybaby, who will keep to himself and find it difficult to form friendships and get close to people.

Never ever make the mistake of ignoring the sensitivity of a Cancerian child; it may hamper his emotional development. It is better to help him get over his numerous fears, with your love and care. Otherwise, he may turn into a snappy, brooding and bitter individual. The opposite can make him a tolerant, kind, self-assured and caring adult. Rain will make a Cancerian nostalgic and he might suddenly become a poet. However, thunder may frighten him. He is very creative and will need your appreciation to develop his potential in this field.

You will have to make him feel secure and loved every now an then, or else he may imagine that you are apathetic towards him. However, don't give in to his each and every demand, else he may become extremely pampered and spoilt. Do give him a healthy spanking when he really needs it. As Cancer children grow older, they realize that world is not what they thought it to be. People are not like Mom and Dad at all, infact they are entirely opposite.

They realize that no one can care like the family and will become extremely devoted towards it. The creativity of a Cancer child may result in a trifle fight being described as a life or death situation. However, when a Cancer child is really hurt, he will most probably keep quiet and brood within. Even the slightest of teasing can make him feel miserable and force him to go deep inside that protective shell, which no one can pierce.

He is not the one to use his pocket money on useless things and then, demand more money. Infact, he will try to earn his own money by doing odd jobs, like babysitting, cutting the neighbor's grass, etc. Cancerian child will always try to help people and will be kind towards animals too. He is always full of humor and has a contagious laugh. He may leave the home at a very tender age, but remember he will come back soon. After all, he still needs the love and care of his Mommy and Daddy!

Cancer Man

A Cancer man will come across as an extremely shy person, who speaks less and minds his own business. He is not one of those who tell everything about themselves in the first meeting itself. Infact, it will take a large number of meetings to get even a little close to him. Cancerian male may seem to a different person every time you meet him. He may be nervous and fickle one moment; extremely confident the second minute and too shy the very next. His frown can easily turn, first, into smile and then, into a laugh.

A Cancerian guy may get sad and melancholic at times and then, you will feel like putting your arms around him and comforting him. Then, suddenly his wistfulness will vanish and he will be sparkling with wit and humor. He is a true romantic and sees fairytale dreams frequently. However, he is as close to reality as anyone can be. Baffled? Don't worry, it will take some time, but you will start understanding your Cancerian man slowly and gradually. The changes in him do not mean a changing personality like the Geminis.

It is just a change of moods and he will soon be his usual self again. The basic characteristics profile will, however, remain the same. Just like a crab, he retreats into a shell when his emotions are hurt. The shell is his haven and he will remain there till he is ready to face the world again. Cancerian men may look harsh and distant at times, but inside they are very gentle, kind and affectionate. Rudeness is not one of their personality traits. It just acts a cover to hide their true, vulnerable feelings.

A Cancer man needs to feel secured of your love every now and then, so don't forget to say 'I Love You' everyday. The same goes for money too, debt makes him uneasy. He is the one who always pays his bills on time and he likes saving more than spending. He is not stingy, but he is also not extravagant. However, a Cancerian male won't sacrifice his taste and style in the name of economy. Economy for him means getting the worth of money he spent. Quality plays the utmost importance as far as he is concerned.

A Cancer guy is very conscious of his looks, his house, his car and everything that surrounds him. His clothes need to have that perfect cut, his car that perfect shine and his food that perfect taste. He is not one of those wild men who like going against the usual norms, and sophistication is something he can't live without. There is another thing a Cancer male cannot live without - talking about his Mommy Dearest! She is most likely to be there in his every second conversation.

In the other extreme, he will be totally detached from her. However, his relationship with his mother will never be casual and moderate. It has to be either of the two extremes and the first one is the most likely. At the same time, he will be the most important person in his mother's life. Make sure you pamper him as much and give him as much attention as his mother. Chivalry is in his nature, unless you give him reasons to be otherwise. A Cancerian guy may take sometime to judge you as his probable soul mate.

However, once he is sure, he will shower you with love, care, admiration and gifts. At the same time, you will be expected to meet his standards, which may be quite high. If he has decided you are the one he wants to live his life with, he will pursue you with fierce determination and make you fall in love with him. Now, we talk about the qualities of a Cancerian guy as a father. He will be totally proud of his son and fiercely protective of his daughter. He will be extremely patient with them. With a Cancerian man, there is one thing you and the kids will never be short of - Love!

Cancer Woman

Have you met a Cancerian woman recently? Are you a little confused as to what she really is - chirpy or somber or distant? She is all of these and still, she is none of these. More confused? A Cancerian woman has mood swings every now and then and these are some of her mood swings only. However, her basic personality traits remain the same. She is very sensitive, emotional, kind and caring. Now's the catch! Most of her traits will be hidden behind a shell of indifference and aloofness.

You will have to gently coerce a Cancerian girl to get out of that shell and come into the big bad world without it. The best time to do this is in the moonlight, when there are maximum changes of catching her in her true emotions. When in love, she will be tender, womanly, timid and modest. She dislikes criticisms, can't stand rejection and gets deeply hurt by harsh words. Too much aggressiveness on your part may make her a little hesitant. A Cancer woman will never make the first move in a relationship; she only knows how to move backwards or sideways.

This is because of two reasons, her shyness and the fear of being rejected. She loves her mother, so you better learn to love as well as respect her too. This female has some secrets and she won't like your prying around her personal diary. She is very insecure and will need your constant reassurance. It doesn't matter if she is the current 'Miss Universe' or has men drooling over her all the time. It is your attention and appreciation she is the most concerned about. A Cancer female is a great cook and makes better food than a five-star hotel chef.

However, you will have to learn to live with her mood swings, which is not so difficult since she is so good in every other way. She is extremely loyal and will keep you happy with her warm and rich humor. Once she is committed to you, she will remain yours forever and ever. Adultery is not one of the traits of her characteristics profile. With a Cancerian woman, you will always have to be careful with words. She is very sentimental and can get hurt very easily. Then, she can cry like a two-year old baby.

You will be expected to console her and wipe her tears. Cancerian women are quite careful with money. Neither will they be stingy, not totally extravagant. They have a habit of saving everything that is usable, be it money or old buttons or empty jars. They also carefully save things that have a sentimental value attached to them, like the sweater grandmother knitted on their fifth birthday. A Cancer female fiercely guards what is hers and that includes you too! However, she is not too possessive or jealous. But, she does not like sharing her love too.

She is one of those people who do not crib about bad luck. She will get depressed and may shed a few tears alone, but she will be patient and wait for the time to change again, this time in her favor. Almost all the Cancerians have the desire of being pampered like a child, especially when they feel low. Don't forget to pay your Cancer girl extra attention when she is depressed, otherwise she may retreat deeper into her shell. Then, it will be very difficult to bring her back to her normal self.

She will want to be told time and again that she is still desirable and you still need her. However, she is not weak and is completely capable of looking after herself. Infact, she is one of those who sacrifice all that they have, for their loved ones. She just needs some spoiling after every few days. A Cancerian woman may be fragile as far as her feelings are concerned, but when you need her, she will be as strong as the 'Rock of Gibraltar'. She will also be very protective of her children and make them feel completely secure.

They will be the center of her universe and she will pamper them with her love, affection and care. The children will also be very close to her and no matter how much far they go from home, they will come back to her and she knows this. A Cancer female always needs you, but she will never get too aggressive. She knows that you may leave for a while, to follow your dreams, but in the end, she is the one you will come back to. Then, you will find her as charming as before, waiting for you with freshly baked break and hot soup. She will feed you, listen to your worries and make you smile again!

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Social Perceptions in the 21st century in Modern Day Singapore:

1.
Caucasian dude with Singaporean chick = Singaporean chicks likes tall, handsome and outspoken guy.

Singaporean dude with Caucasian chick = Is that white bitch of sound mind?!



2.
Caucasian dude opens door for a lady = Is gentlemanly and impresses everyone around.

Singaporean dude opens door for lady = Copying Caucasians, people around get suspicious and wonders "Is he tryin to score points here?"



3.
Caucasian dude chats up Singaporean chick = Would definitely be interesting and turn into an involved conversation in no time.

Singaporean dude chats up any chick = Seems like a creepy encounter and is hesitant to continue the conversation.


4.
Caucasian dude speaks broken Chinese = Is considered cute and amuses everyone around.

Singaporean dude speaks fluent English = Called a "banana", and will soon be outcasted by Singlish-speaking friends.


5.
Caucasian dude drive sports car = Has the James Bond aura and is a chick magnet.

Singaporean dude drive sports car = Chao Ah Beng <= Enough said


6.
Caucasian dude in suit and tie = CEO

Singaporean dude in suit and tie = MLM


7.
Intelligent Caucasian dude = Professional, outspoken, sporty, loaded, enjoys life, extroverted

Intelligent Singaporean dude = Independent worker, nerdy, softspoken, introverted, un-streetsmart, wins olympiads

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A Love Letter

A love letter I found off SG Club. It's not well written, but I think it has alot of meaning.

How are you? Whatever you're doing right now, I want you to know that I'm thinking of you. I do not know if we've ever seen each other before, but I know that you're there... I'm here under this great sky waiting for you to come into my life. I have no idea of what you're look like. Are you tall or short? white or fair complexion? I have no idea... But everytime I close my eyes, I can feel your embrace while my tears are falling because of happiness. Time will come when I'll know who you really are. I will ready myself because I know that when that time comes, my world will really stop turning. I want you to know that I'm ready to get hurted. I hope when that time comes, please accept me for what I am. I am not rich, my family is just simple. I cannot buy expensive gifts for you. But I'll do whatever it takes just to make you happy. Promise... I'll be your knight even without that shining armor. I will always be here when you are troubled. Eventhough I cannot fix the things that are bothering you, I will never leave you. You can cry on my shoulders. At times when you feel like you hate the world, you can turn me into a punching bag. You can hit me whichever way you want. When you feel like you're alone, just hold my hand. We'll fly away together to another world. All I'm asking for is that when I give my heart to you, please treasure it. Don't worry about my parents, they are very understanding.Though, I may have this attitudes that you do not like, I want you to know that I'm willing to change for you. I will wait until the moment that I gain your trust and love. I will do the things I've never done before in my entire life eventhough I may look stupid doing it. I will give you flowers when I want you to feel how much important you are to me. I know that problems may come between us. But we will overcome it together. Time will come when our hair will turn gray and our skin will turn senile, But I know that your beauty will stay inside my heart, where I'll keep the picture of our everlasting love. I am so excited for the time that you will come into my life... I want to offer my life to you. I am ready to love you for the rest of my life.

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